@ZachWeinersmith

The Ezra Klein Podcast has been my favorite for thoughtful, not-completely-one-sided discussion of Israel:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-have-no-idea-how-this-ends-ive-never-seen-it-so-broken/id1548604447?i=1000642204568

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-wars-in-ukraine-and-gaza-have-changed-americas/id1548604447?i=1000647643424

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/watching-the-protests-from-israel/id1548604447?i=1000654784076

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-disastrous-relationship-between-israel/id1548604447?i=1000655897690

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-view-from-the-israeli-right/id1548604447?i=1000659007063

I recall this EconTalk episode being a good (if meandering) discussion, specifically re the difficulty reconciling each sides' notion of the truth:

https://www.econtalk.org/the-challenge-of-covering-the-most-important-story-on-earth-with-matti-friedman/

Finally, here's one from Destiny - it's rather heated, but very chill compared to most of his debates, and it focuses on the legal details of Israel's actions; it's more nuanced than almost every other similar discussion I've seen:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p1D1IqYflw