@ryanc @Crell @jerry

same same here. run small email server.

while i can sympathize with consumer email providers that block-specific only doesn't scale nearly as well as block-all/allow-only-specific, we hit what you say. how do i prove i'm "clean" if i can't send to you.

i do think we need to have these discussions, possibly be willing to give up some cherished ideals, but most critically, we need to get those most at risk of abuse involved at every stage in discussion/design/test/deploy.