Phew. This hit me hard.
From https://crimethinc.com/zines/why-we-dont-make-demands:
"It is a time-honored tradition [...] to present demands that they know will never be granted: don’t invade Iraq, stop defunding education, bail out people not banks, make the police stop killing black people. In return for brief audiences with bureaucrats who answer to much shrewder players, they water down their politics and try to get their less complaisant colleagues to behave themselves."
"[...] Such efforts may not achieve their express purpose, but they do accomplish something: **they frame a narrative in which the existing institutions are the only conceivable protagonists of change**."
"Real self-determination is not something that any authority can grant us. We have to develop it by acting on our own strength, centering ourselves in the narrative as the protagonists of history."