Gregory's Server@balrogboogie You can‘t be forced to discuss a matter privately unless there is a corresponding contract in place, but oftentimes the private conversation is easier/cheaper to resolve than getting dragged to court.
Depending on the jurisdiction, providing the chance to resolve the matter privately is even required before a case is opened (failed out-of-court settlement).
@yahe I think you are reaching an incredible amount to try and give this obvious narcissist the benefit of the doubt, and that makes me question your motives