Every now and then I am reminded of the fact that for at least one mutual, I can't see the messages from her #Akkoma instance on my #GoToSocial instance but I can see them on a Mastodon instance where I have an alt. But when a third person I'm following replies to her messages, I do see the reply – and hers! – on my GoToSocial instance. It seems that only the original posts are affected. How weird is that.