Gregory's ServerThank you very much for sharing your thoughts. I had a "feeling" grumbling in my stomach (that is why I wrote "intresting" with the thought-face behind it 🤔) But I could not put a finger to name my grumbling. It makes sense to me, what you are writing.
From my experience in moderating and supporting an engaged open source community I share your experiences. Recently we wondered how to "know what peeps need". It's not easy to know. The blind spot is huge.