@J12t The way I think about: I can do better by learning when is the right time to repress and when is the right to encourage. These are wholly abstract terms and are not either good or bad on their own. What are repressing or encouraging - your feelings, someone that is in a more precarious situation than you or the sound of the radio in a shared living room?
@malte you are missing the point by applying a microscope when you should look at the vista.