Learn how to manage memory manually, or how to write assembly. Write a compiler, or a web browser.
Learn how to repair your hardware when it breaks, and how to fix your software when the authors don't care to.
Teach yourself how to write, or draw, or sing, or whatever it is that you wish you knew.
You don't have to do any of this, of course - but if you're not going to, it should be because you don't want to, not because you've been lied to.
The hardest step is to admit that you are capable.
This thought brought to you by years of discussion with other people where I have slowly realized just how many people have chosen not to even try pursuing their interests due to years of *lies*.
For every person who genuinely cannot learn algebra, there are *hundreds* who had the wrong teacher (not necessarily a *bad* teacher, just not the one that they needed).
Has any musician ever told people that learning music is hard?
Has any writer claimed most people aren't good enough to try?