Gregory's Server
I also post nearly everything Unlisted, which I posit limits the "showing up in everyone's Federated feed" factor.
Which may account for some of that.
But that's just an additional theory, whiteness/patriarchy more than adequately explains it on its own.
For the record, no one invites this shit.
No one "invites" getting some random dipshit showing up in their mentions to lecture them on how wrong they are.
That's entirely optional. That's a choice.