@charliejane
My new rule: when I see a hateful comment that no one has responded to or liked, I leave it alone. I imagine that message spiraling out through the void, like General Zod trapped in a 2 dimensional prison. My comment or interactions, to rebut that previously ignored comment, will only release that negativity from the phantom zone it’s currently trapped in.

@charliejane "Don't promise any emotional labor you might not be able to provide"

It's a tough one but yep.

@charliejane good list

@charliejane These are really good, simple rules. We should all keep these in mind. Thanks! 💖

@charliejane Especially that last one is important.

Why would you stick with people who don't appear to be friendly to you? Surely you get enough negativity already?