@aw this was a fun read, thanks. it feels similar to how i run a private irc server for friends. the server only allows registered accounts to connect, and im the one that creates them, with an initial temp password and instructions on how to change it. im very particular in who i invite to the community due to my lack of time, but also want to make sure people fit into the vibe we have there. there isnt really a way to register either haha