@tootapp @socialuser this is a bit one sided frankly. For example users that seldom are on the app may use (the rare) notifications they get to decide when they’d like to check in on what’s happening. Not all social media users are online all the time.
I appreciate making a stand for what you think is right but what you think may not necessarily cover the use cases of all.
@tootapp @socialuser I would also add that the options in the poll are unnecessarily manipulative, essentially leaving the choice you propose in your toot the only “not extreme” choice to make.