This was probably the thing I got the hardest pushback on from a team member of Bluesky, that it is not quadratic as we scale towards decentralization.
Truth be told, I don't have a degree in CS. Most of what I know I learned from studying independently and community resources. Was I wrong?
Just as a quick aside, regarding that comment about "agency", maximizing the agency of everyone (and more importantly, minimizing subjection!) sits at the heart of my ethical framework https://fossandcrafts.org/episodes/11-an-ethics-of-agency.html
So I don't disagree on that part, but that's an aside!