"I asked if the piece seemed mean to her, because she was one of the people I kept in mind as 'someone I wouldn't want to be upset with me when reading the article', and she said something like 'I think the only way in which you could be considered mean was that you were unrelentingly accurate in your technical analysis'."
https://dustycloud.org/blog/re-re-bluesky-decentralization/
What a great compliment on your writing! I suspect I often fail, but this is always what I'm aiming for in my analysis of tech.