@cwebber I've been on Tribel, which is also decentralized. It is unfriendly, moderators blame victims for being attacked (IF they want to moderate), full of anti-LGBT+ posters, if a post is removed, it looks like YOU were the one at fault, and your entire page will be filled with '[poster] is a herpes infected muppet'. You can easily get banned for being trolled.

Mastadon and Bluesky are very safe, though.