Because, it turns out, even EXPLAINING THE PROBLEM to non-fedi people gets very complicated very quickly.
I rewrote a more technical post five (5) times in the past couple of months and then tossed it and wrote the one above instead, because I always do better when I go back to human terms.
There's a lot more coming, including more technical stuff and deeper looks at why I think governance should be the crucial factor in server choice.
But in the meantime: Why is the analogy about shoes?
Because, like social media, shoes are often coded as kinda frivolous at best—but, like human communication and community, they're essential for surviving difficult conditions.