@bowreality @saltphoenix @hahn_cornelia It's all about the style, particularly the memes comparing him with Kim Ye-Ji: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna164504
In short, based on a single photo people were able to read in an entire backstory for these two people - futuristic cyborg assassin and laid back assassin - that probably bear no resemblance to their actual lives. That's the whole story. Has nothing much to do with misogyny or patriarchy.