@ai6yr also, I don't want to be antagonistic, but the phrase "I don't get why people" seems to be (at least to me) part of that very problem. it's a kind of soft gatekeeping. treating the non-obvious choice as the obvious choice just isn't gonna win anyone over. @miah
@ai6yr (okay last thing I promise): I am absolutely in favour of using irc, xmpp, linux and all that, and I do. but I also use discord, because I know people that won't use IRC, ever. because it's weird and old and text-based and they'd have to learn new rules and how the whole decentralized thing works and why would they? noone they know (except me) would even be there. @miah