Gregory's Server@kissane I really wanted to believe it when fedi was described as a project built to be safe from abuse and give people tools. But I still cant own my own instance and I still cant use tools to feel safe. Safety is not even an option because they dont want it to be. The call is coming from inside the house. The letdown is dramatic and deep. No fork is going to save this.
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 @SarraceniaWilds @kissane why can you not own your own instance? I thought anyone who wanted to and had the money for domain reg could do so. What is it I'm missing? π¨π¨DO NOT REPLY WITH MANSPLAINING ABOUT SELF HOSTINGπ¨π¨ i will block you for ANYTHING i do not give a single shit anymore |
@kissane For real this is like an abusive relationship. I thought my first instance was a one off, shit admin. Its baked in. Systemic. And I feel like shit for not seeing the exact same pattern I see everywhere else, here.