So, observation is the cost (time AND money) of living outside in the given setup + maintaining all the communication (electrical, water, gas, septic, etc) is just incredibly bigger than living in the city.
I have to mow the grass for at least 10h a week to keep it in place. That's just some idiotically spent time when I could be coding something cool (or anything other "productive" like creating something, not maintaining the existubng) or just resting. And that's plus gasoline & oil cost.
So, that's just for the "basic" maintenance. Plus horses: feed everyday + clean the stables (thanks god I've found someone to do this for a little money).
Again that's only MAINTENANCE.
It's impossible to live without a car here. Have to drive to the shop for ~10 minutes one way + much higher gasoline expenses.
And the communications are not in "full comfort zone". Had to spend ~ 1k$ ordering all the water filtering stuff (it will be hard for mom to carry bottled water).