@mookie
As as ambivert but also audhd, depending on the people, it can be confusing, so I just tell friends, if you wanna talk or not and hang out just let me know and I’ll do the same…

Sometimes the scale of overwhelming can sneak up on different friends, for me as well, sometimes, different people and different topics, SPINs and things can be comforting.
While others can raise anxiety.

Sometimes atmosphere of environment has its own social ecosystem or locus plays in role