@sindarina perhaps I should say that to me, a medium-sized server is something bigger than about 150 people, essentially one where it is not likely for everyone to know everyone else. To me this is the point where governance begins to really matter. I don't know if that changes how you feel.

As to the American thing, it's a valid concern. I try to take a global perspective in what I do, and to ensure that my sample is not just US or English-speaking servers.