@dragoncrown @mairhart …and a knee-jerk defensiveness and aggressive willingness to shame in order to enforce those cultural norms. Of course cultural norms tend to evolve, and the influx of so many new users is like adding a few thousand tanks of nitro to your engine mix in that regard. I can only imagine the anxiety and fear that must provoke amongst older Mastodonians. (2/2)
@bradpilcher @mairhart Quite true, and speaking of instances.
Here is a finding I'm bracing myself for once this post spreads enough. If I'm right, picking the right instance based on it's community rules does a LOT of heavy lifting keeping minorities safe.
Picking the wrong instance could lead to an immediate bad experience.