@darius I'm following the discussion because I have had positive and negative interactions with some folks from the shitposting side (that overall left me with a deep distrust of everyone in that whole scene), and I've had positive interactions from the sincere side, and I suspect my admins here DGAF and just want to have fun, so I am tentatively thinking that I should move to an instance that's more actively aligned with my values and more hometown-like. But I don't know where that is or what, exactly, values I'm trying to live by with that decision process.
@eqe I can recommend rage.love, or if you are a parent, dads.cool