@arh I know you didnt mean anything offensive by your comment but if you care to know how it can be taken: non binary people are usually ones who have a strong dislike for people to put them in the boxes that this society has created and enforced for us. So your comment is: "I saw you as woman, now I see you as dude" = definition of a binary. So in the spirit of respecting each other please take a moment and reflect on why you find it relevant at all to point out a persons gender