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Ali Reza Hayati

@liaizon dude all this time I thought you’re a woman.

1 Jul 2022 at 11:45 | Wall-to-wall | Open on mstdn.io
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Ali Reza Hayati

@liaizon I don’t know what that is (I know it’s about gender and I respect that) but it was interesting.

1 Jul 2022 at 11:58 | Open on mstdn.io
wakest ⁂

@arh a good thing to read up on, as you are probably interacting with many people who are non binary around this space and if you see yourself as trying to respect people then that might be a good first step

1 Jul 2022 at 12:03 | Open on social.wake.st
Ali Reza Hayati

@liaizon my motto is what people do in their private life and what they identify as is not my business and respecting them is a humane thing to do so I may not catch up with everything but as far as we’re civil and friends, I’m OK with it.

1 Jul 2022 at 12:06 | Open on mstdn.io
wakest ⁂

@arh I know you didnt mean anything offensive by your comment but if you care to know how it can be taken: non binary people are usually ones who have a strong dislike for people to put them in the boxes that this society has created and enforced for us. So your comment is: "I saw you as woman, now I see you as dude" = definition of a binary. So in the spirit of respecting each other please take a moment and reflect on why you find it relevant at all to point out a persons gender

1 Jul 2022 at 12:16 | Open on social.wake.st
Ali Reza Hayati

@liaizon I think it’s just a habit I grew up with. I grew up being thought that there’s only two genders and every person is one of the two. I didn’t mean to offend you but the whole thing is new to me and my generation so please understand that how I speak and my choice of words may not represent how I think or believe. Old habits die hard, sadly.

1 Jul 2022 at 13:02 | Open on mstdn.io
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