@afewbugs
Blaming people for this is shitty, absolutely, but i for one see it like domestic abuse situations, in a better world you should be able to tell the abuser to stop, but in ours the solution is to *GET OUT*. Demanding the abuser to stop the abusing doesn't tend to work. Leaving Big Tech is inconvenient, difficult, time consuming, etc., but is the only real solution to their ever-worsening abuse until things change enough that they're stopped, which might take many, many years.